{"id":250353,"date":"2022-09-27T10:06:23","date_gmt":"2022-09-27T08:06:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/?p=250353"},"modified":"2025-01-16T16:18:28","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:18:28","slug":"remercier-une-personne-pour-sa-gentillesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/remercier-une-personne-pour-sa-gentillesse\/","title":{"rendered":"Remercier, une action qui fait du bien !"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u00ab Merci \u00bb, en voil\u00e0 un bien joli mot ! Si certains le disent \u00e0 tout bout de champ, d\u2019autres l\u2019utilisent avec parcimonie sans vraiment savoir que <strong>t\u00e9moigner sa gratitude est bon pour la sant\u00e9<\/strong>. Tu l\u2019ignorais toi aussi ? Approche ! On va t\u2019expliquer en d\u00e9tail pourquoi<strong> remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse est essentiel <\/strong>\ud83d\udc96\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udcd6\u200b Contexte<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>De nos jours, \u00ab merci \u00bb est une <strong>expression populaire<\/strong> employ\u00e9e par respect ou par politesse. Comme l&rsquo;explique le linguiste Claude Duneton dans son livre <em>La Puce \u00e0 l&rsquo;oreille, <\/em>le terme d\u00e9signait <strong>au Moyen-Age<\/strong> une \u00ab <strong>r\u00e9compense<\/strong> \u00bb. Dire merci permettait donc d\u2019<strong>obtenir une faveur<\/strong> alors que l\u2019on t\u00e9moigne maintenant sa gratitude pour <strong>donner en \u00e9change<\/strong>. En voil\u00e0 un renversement de situation !\u200b \ud83d\udd01\u200b<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"read-also\">\n    <p class=\"read-also__title\">\u00c0 lire aussi<\/p>\n            <div class=\"read-also__list\">\n            <p>Tu veux savoir <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/rester-positif\/\">comment rester positif pendant tes \u00e9tudes<\/a> ? D\u00e9couvre nos astuces ! \ud83d\udcaa<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"la-gratitude-un-aspect-de-la-pensee-positive\">La gratitude, un aspect de la pens\u00e9e positive \ud83c\udf08\u200b<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>On entend souvent qu\u2019il ne faut plus <strong>remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse<\/strong> apr\u00e8s avoir eu une mauvaise exp\u00e9rience. Apr\u00e8s tout, pourquoi dire merci si on r\u00e9fl\u00e9chit \u00e0 toutes les fois o\u00f9 on n\u2019a pas eu les r\u00e9ponses ou l\u2019aide attendues\u202f? Si tu penses comme \u00e7a, sache que c\u2019est bien <strong>plus b\u00e9n\u00e9fique d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 faire preuve de gratitude <\/strong>sans chercher \u00e0 recevoir \ud83e\udd32\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"citation\">\n        <q class=\"citation__text\"><blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">Soyons reconnaissants<\/span> aux personnes qui <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">nous donnent <\/span>du bonheur ; elles sont les <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">charmants jardiniers<\/span> par qui <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">nos<\/span> <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u00e2mes <\/span>sont fleuries.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/q>\n\n                    <div class=\"citation__infos  citation__infos--full \">\n                                    <p class=\"citation__infos-name\">Marcel Proust<\/p>\n                                                    <p class=\"citation__infos-job\">\u00c9crivain<\/p>\n                            <\/div>\n            <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>Il n\u2019appartient qu\u2019\u00e0 toi d\u2019adopter la <strong>psychologie positive<\/strong>, une pens\u00e9e dont le chercheur en psychologie et professeur <strong>Martin Seligman<\/strong> est le pionnier. L\u2019une des valeurs essentielles de cette pens\u00e9e positive, c\u2019est la <strong>gratitude<\/strong>. Qu\u2019elle soit envers soi-m\u00eame ou envers les autres, cette forme de reconnaissance et de remerciement est source de bien-\u00eatre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans son livre <em>Vivre la psychologie positive<\/em>, un ouvrage enrichi de nombreux questionnaires et tests, tu verras comment appliquer les <strong>principes de cette pens\u00e9e<\/strong> dans ta vie. Le plus beau, c\u2019est qu\u2019elle <strong>s\u2019int\u00e9resse plus au pourquoi une personne va bien<\/strong>, qu\u2019au pourquoi une personne va mal ! Fascinant, n\u2019est-ce pas ? \ud83d\ude0e\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/wIVA0zh5pt0G5YtcAL\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Notre cher Martin Seligman n\u2019est d\u2019ailleurs pas le seul \u00e0 dire que remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse est un pilier de la pens\u00e9e positive.<strong> R\u00e9becca Shankland<\/strong>, professeure et chercheure en psychologie, en parle aussi :<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>\u00ab\u00a0Elle g\u00e9n\u00e8re une vision plus optimiste de la vie et nous aide \u00e0 aller de l\u2019avant, notamment dans les situations difficiles que nous pouvons rencontrer\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>Maintenant, tu as compris que <strong>remercier <\/strong>une personne pour sa gentillesse<strong> est une action centrale dans la pens\u00e9e positive.<\/strong> Une question reste pourtant sur les l\u00e8vres : pourquoi les experts sont aussi int\u00e9ress\u00e9s par la gratitude ? \ud83e\udd14\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"push \">\n        <div >\n            \n                                                <div class=\"push__container  qcd\" data-target=\"_self\" data-qcd=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9zaGVycGFzLmNvbS9mdW5uZWwtc3R1ZGVudC1xdWFsaWZpY2F0aW9u\" data-banner=\"2\" data-name=\"Cours part\u2019 global #1 = CPG1\" style=\"background-color: #F3FBF7\" >\n                                                                        <div class=\"push__teachers\">\n    <div class=\"d-flex justify-content-center d-md-none\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"push__logo\" src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\" alt=\"Logo Sherpas\">\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"swiper\">\n        <div 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Cachemire et soie \u00bb, le fait de remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse permet de voir la vie plus positivement et d\u2019ainsi se lib\u00e9rer du stress que g\u00e9n\u00e8rent inutilement certaines situations du quotidien \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8\u200b Robert <strong>Emmons<\/strong>, \u00e0 travers ses travaux et ses recherches, l\u2019a aussi constat\u00e9 :<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>\u00ab\u00a0Les personnes capables de<strong> lister les raisons<\/strong> pour lesquelles elles se r\u00e9jouissent se sentent <strong>mieux dans leur peau<\/strong>, sont plus actives et offrent une meilleure r\u00e9sistance au stress\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-suzy-hazelwood-1226398-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-250356\" width=\"504\" height=\"283\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse aide \u00e0<strong> mieux dormir <\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le soir, <strong>on a tendance \u00e0 penser \u00e0 ce qui nous est arriv\u00e9 de mauvais <\/strong>dans la semaine : une chute en public, appeler la prof \u00ab maman \u00bb au lieu de \u00ab madame \u00bb ou encore sortir une disquette g\u00eanante en croyant qu\u2019elle est g\u00e9niale\u2026 Dans tous les cas, on a tous d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu notre moment embarrassant. Robert Emmons pense qu\u2019un remerciement peut venir \u00e0 notre rescousse :<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>\u00ab\u00a0Ressentir de la <strong>gratitude <\/strong>et de l&rsquo;appr\u00e9ciation sont deux facteurs de <strong>bien-\u00eatre<\/strong>, qui ont un<strong> effet sur nos cerveaux et sur nos corps<\/strong>. Ils rel\u00e2chent des mol\u00e9cules qui font ressentir une sensation de contentement, qui <strong>aide \u00e0 trouver le sommeil <\/strong>plus facilement. R\u00e9sultat ? Les personnes gagnent de pr\u00e9cieuses minutes de sommeil, s&rsquo;endorment plus t\u00f4t, et sont donc <strong>plus repos\u00e9es au r\u00e9veil \u00bb<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Un merci ne co\u00fbte rien et <strong>aide ton c\u0153u<\/strong>r (au sens propre, hein !)\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En r\u00e9alisant une \u00e9tude aupr\u00e8s de personnes cardiaques, <strong>Paul Milles <\/strong>a d\u00e9duit que les remerciements \u00e9taient bons pour la sant\u00e9. <strong>Plus les malades se sentaient reconnaissants, moins ils \u00e9taient d\u00e9prim\u00e9s<\/strong>. Cela les aidait \u00e0 avoir confiance en eux et \u00e0 combattre leurs probl\u00e8mes de c\u0153ur \u2764\ufe0f\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/7W1rgKAxlDe3m\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"-18\" height=\"-13\" \/><figcaption>Bon pour l&rsquo;esprit, bon pour le c\u0153ur !<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 \u200bTu dois<strong> \u00e9crire <\/strong>tout ce qui t\u2019arrive de bien pour \u00eatre<strong> plus \u00e9nergique <\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Robert Emmons a remarqu\u00e9 que <strong>ceux qui \u00e9crivaient quotidiennement<\/strong> ce qui leur \u00e9tait arriv\u00e9 de positif faisaient preuve de \u00ab\u00a0plus d&rsquo;attention, d&rsquo;\u00e9nergie, d&rsquo;enthousiasme et de d\u00e9termination\u00a0\u00bb pour r\u00e9ussir dans la vie.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udd0e\u200b \u00c9tude de cas<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Pour mesurer les effets r\u00e9els des remerciements, <strong>Robert Emmons et Michael McCullough<\/strong> (son super coll\u00e8gue !) <strong>ont form\u00e9 3 groupes<\/strong> gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 plusieurs centaines de personnes.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --> <!-- wp:list {\"ordered\":true} --><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Le premier groupe devait tenir un journal en notant ses exp\u00e9riences quotidiennes, bonnes ou mauvaises \ud83d\udc4d\u200b\ud83d\udc4e\u200b<\/li>\n<li>Le deuxi\u00e8me groupe devait seulement \u00e9crire les exp\u00e9riences d\u00e9sagr\u00e9ables \ud83d\udc4e\u200b<\/li>\n<li>Le troisi\u00e8me groupe devait noter les \u00e9v\u00e9nements positifs pour lesquels ils pouvaient se sentir reconnaissants\u200b \ud83d\udc4d\u200b\u200b<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><!-- \/wp:list --> <!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Dix semaines plus tard, le r\u00e9sultat \u00e9tait sans appel : le troisi\u00e8me groupe \u00e9tait <strong>le plus enthousiaste, d\u00e9termin\u00e9 et optimiste<\/strong>. Il ressentait aussi <strong>moins de stress<\/strong>, avait une meilleure qualit\u00e9 de <strong>sommeil <\/strong>et une <strong>performance accrue<\/strong>. Tenir un carnet sur des \u00e9v\u00e9nements positifs et remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse est donc vraiment b\u00e9n\u00e9fique pour la sant\u00e9 !<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>\u200b\ud83d\udc49\u200b La cerise sur le g\u00e2teau : remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse <strong>renoue avec des valeurs<\/strong> oubli\u00e9es \ud83c\udf52\u200b\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Michael McCullough estime que \u00ab la gratitude pourrait \u00eatre une <strong>heureuse alternative au mat\u00e9rialisme <\/strong>\u00bb puisqu\u2019elle incite \u00e0 appr\u00e9cier ce qu\u2019on a et non \u00e0 chercher \u00e0 prendre ce qu\u2019on d\u00e9sire. En bref, on ne pense plus \u00ab je veux recevoir \u00bb mais \u00ab je veux donner \u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"push \">\n        <div >\n            \n                                                <div class=\"push__container  qcd\" data-target=\"_self\" data-qcd=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9zaGVycGFzLmNvbS9mdW5uZWwtc3R1ZGVudC1xdWFsaWZpY2F0aW9u\" data-banner=\"2\" data-name=\"Cours part\u2019 global #2 = CPG2\" style=\"background-color: #F3FBF7\" >\n                                                                        <div class=\"push__teachers\">\n    <div class=\"d-flex justify-content-center d-md-none\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"push__logo\" src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\" alt=\"Logo Sherpas\">\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"swiper\">\n        <div class=\"swiper-wrapper\">\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n     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xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">21\u20ac\/h\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Thibault2x.png);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Thibault<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">ENS Paris Ulm<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">20\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Sophie2x.png);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Sophie<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">Sciences Po Bordeaux<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">12\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Noemie2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">No\u00e9mie<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">M2 en droit \u00e0 Assas<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">19\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Fanny2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Fanny<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">Ponts ParisTech<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">19\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Simon2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Simon<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">4e ann\u00e9e de m\u00e9decine<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">26\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                    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xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">17\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Victor2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Victor<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">ESCP<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">25\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n                                                    <div class=\"push__content\">\n                                                            <div  class=\"d-none d-md-block\" >\n                                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"push__logo\" src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\"\n                                        alt=\"Logo Sherpas\">\n                                <\/div>\n                                                                                        <div class=\"push__title\"><p>Besoin d&rsquo;un prof particulier ? <span role=\"img\" aria-label=\"\u2728\">\u2728<\/span><!-- notionvc: 9b5ed38b-ea2e-4d3c-a3bb-f0091c2eedd2 --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                                                        <div class=\"push__text\"><p>Nos profs sont l\u00e0 pour t&rsquo;aider \u00e0 progresser !<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!-- notionvc: 20490bdd-6579-484b-9d99-0ff0bc1aa8e7 --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                        <div class=\"push__promo-button   \">\n                                                                                                    <div\n                                        class=\"btn btn-primary\"\n                                        style=\"color: ; border-color: ; background-color: \"\n\n                                    >\n                                        JE PRENDS UN COURS OFFERT !\n                                    <\/div>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"comment-temoigner-sa-gratitude\">Comment t\u00e9moigner sa gratitude ? \u200b\ud83e\udd17\u200b<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"remercier-une-personne-pour-sa-gentillesse-autrement-quavec-des-mots\">Remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse autrement qu\u2019avec des mots \ud83d\ude4f<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Comme il existe une <strong>infinit\u00e9 de moyens de communiquer<\/strong>, il existe<strong> plein de fa\u00e7ons de remercier<\/strong> une personne pour sa gentillesse. S\u2019il te para\u00eet naturel de recevoir l\u2019aide de ta famille, de tes amis ou encore de tes professeurs, n\u2019oublie jamais qu\u2019un remerciement chaleureux vaut tout l\u2019or du monde !<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"citation\">\n        <q class=\"citation__text\"><p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">Les actes <\/span>valent <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">souvent<\/span> mieux que <span style=\"color: #0000ff\">les paroles.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/q>\n\n                    <div class=\"citation__infos  citation__infos--full \">\n                                    <p class=\"citation__infos-name\">Ron Dennis<\/p>\n                                                    <p class=\"citation__infos-job\">Homme d&rsquo;affaires<\/p>\n                            <\/div>\n            <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>On a trouv\u00e9 pour toi plusieurs mani\u00e8res d\u2019exprimer ta gratitude :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 \u200bOffre <strong>une carte <\/strong>(pas des cartes Pok\u00e9mon ou des cartes \u00e0 collectionner, hein !). Basique, mais \u00e7a fait toujours plaisir ! Artiste dans l\u2019\u00e2me ou non, la faire de tes propres mains montrera que tu as pris le temps de faire un geste pour la personne \ud83c\udfa8\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 <strong>\u00c9cris un texte<\/strong> : un po\u00e8me pour un ami, un discours, une lettre, une charade, une blague\u2026 Pour que ton texte fasse plaisir, tu dois l\u2019\u00e9crire avec ton c\u0153ur. \u00c0 toi de mettre en route ton \u00e2me de po\u00e8te et de manier la langue de <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/biographie-de-moliere\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"208041\">Moli\u00e8re<\/a> comme personne pour remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse de fa\u00e7on inoubliable !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 \u200bProfite d\u2019une <strong>occasion particuli\u00e8re<\/strong> comme la f\u00eate des m\u00e8res, des p\u00e8res, la saint-valentin, la f\u00eate de l\u2019amiti\u00e9, un anniversaire ou on ne sait quoi d\u2019autre \u2026 Tu sauras mieux que nous quel moment sera id\u00e9al pour dire merci. Si ce n\u2019est pas le cas, \u00e0 toi de cr\u00e9er cette occasion parfaite en demandant l\u2019aide d\u2019un ami. Apr\u00e8s tout, <em>you are the best<\/em> !<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/3KC2jD2QcBOSc\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Offre <strong>un cadeau<\/strong> (sans te ruiner bien s\u00fbr) ! Si tu ne connais pas les go\u00fbts de la personne, un cadeau passe-partout te sauvera la mise : une tasse, des chocolats, une bougie, un tote bag, une carte \u00e0 remplir\u2026 Un petit pr\u00e9sent montrera \u00e0 la personne en question que tu as voulu lui faire plaisir. \u00c7a favorisera peut-\u00eatre les d\u00e9buts d\u2019une longue et belle amiti\u00e9 \ud83c\udf81\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"read-also\">\n    <p class=\"read-also__title\">\u00c0 lire aussi<\/p>\n            <div class=\"read-also__list\">\n            <p>D\u00e9couvre les <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/cadeaux-prepa\/\">10 cadeaux \u00e0 (ne pas) offrir \u00e0 un \u00e9tudiant en pr\u00e9pa<\/a> !<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Offre<strong> des fleurs<\/strong> (non, ne cueille pas les tulipes de la voisine).\u200b Un bouquet fait toujours son petit effet, qu\u2019il soit pour un homme ou une femme. Si tu entends souvent qu\u2019un bouquet ce n\u2019est pas appropri\u00e9 pour dire merci \u00e0 un gar\u00e7on, oublie imm\u00e9diatement cette id\u00e9e re\u00e7ue.\u200b Tout le monde aime en recevoir ! \ud83d\udc90<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-the-smell-of-roses-122734-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-250362\" width=\"326\" height=\"218\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/partir-en-mission-humanitaire\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"240551\">Fais du <strong>b\u00e9n\u00e9volat<\/strong><\/a><strong> ou parraine <\/strong>quelqu\u2019un. Si tu veux procurer du bonheur apr\u00e8s avoir re\u00e7u quelque chose, cette mani\u00e8re d\u2019exprimer la gratitude que tu as au fond du c\u0153ur te procurera de la joie. Un ami t\u2019a aid\u00e9 dans la vie ? Super, \u00e0 ton tour de lui rendre service ! C&rsquo;est un excellent cadeau pour remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\u200b\ud83d\udca1\u200b Le savais-tu ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>Dans son livre <em>Merci, mon carnet de gratitude<\/em>, Anne-Solange Tardy propose des<strong> exercices ludiques<\/strong> bas\u00e9s sur <strong>l&rsquo;expression cr\u00e9ative<\/strong> pour apprendre ou r\u00e9apprendre \u00e0 remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse. Tu passeras de vrais moments de bonheur gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 cet ouvrage !<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"adapter-ses-remerciements-en-fonction-de-son-interlocuteur\">Adapter ses remerciements en fonction de son interlocuteur \ud83d\ude00\u200b<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"quelques-textes-et-expressions-pour-dire-merci\">Quelques textes et expressions pour dire merci !<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>En fonction de la personne<\/strong> que tu as en face de toi, tu dois trouver la meilleure fa\u00e7on de t\u00e9moigner ta reconnaissance et ton amiti\u00e9. Comme on \u00e9vite de dire \u00ab Wow ! Merci, fr\u00e8reee ! \u00bb \u00e0 son employeur, on dit rarement \u00ab Je te suis reconnaissant. \u00bb \u00e0 son meilleur ami. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49\u200b \u00c0 l\u2019oral, tu peux utiliser ces formules si tu es suffisamment <strong>proche de la personne<\/strong>, qu\u2019elle a le <strong>m\u00eame \u00e2ge<\/strong> que toi ou qu\u2019elle t\u2019autorise \u00e0 la <strong>tutoyer <\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Merci beaucoup !<\/li><li>C&rsquo;est tr\u00e8s gentil de ta part.<\/li><li>Un grand merci \u00e0 toi.<\/li><li>Sinc\u00e8rement, merci !<\/li><li>Tu m\u2019as \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u2019un grand secours.<\/li><li>Merci pour ta gentillesse.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49\u200b Dans le cas contraire, utilise plut\u00f4t celles-ci :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Merci infiniment de votre aide.<\/li><li>Je vous remercie sinc\u00e8rement.<\/li><li>Je vous remercie pour le temps que vous m\u2019avez accord\u00e9.<\/li><li>Merci, vous m\u2019avez donn\u00e9 de pr\u00e9cieux conseils.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 \u200bDans une<strong> lettre de motivation<\/strong>, tu peux utiliser ces formules de politesse :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Je vous prie de recevoir, Madame, Monsieur, mes sinc\u00e8res salutations.<\/li><li>Je vous prie de croire, Madame, Monsieur, en mes respectueuses salutations.<\/li><li>Je vous prie de recevoir, Madame, Monsieur, mes salutations distingu\u00e9es.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n<section class=\"read-also\">\n    <p class=\"read-also__title\">\u00c0 lire aussi<\/p>\n            <div class=\"read-also__list\">\n            <p>Tu veux <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/comment-faire-une-lettre-de-motivation\/\">\u00e9crire une lettre de motivation pour une formation<\/a> ?\u00a0On a la m\u00e9thode parfaite !\u270d\ufe0f<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>Le mot salutation est<strong> plus appropri\u00e9 pour un message formel et professionnel<\/strong>. Il sert \u00e0 la fois \u00e0 clore un texte avec politesse et \u00e0 remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"petit-tour-dhorizon\">Petit tour d\u2019horizon ! \ud83c\udf0d\u200b<\/h4>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udde3\ufe0f\u200b D&rsquo;apr\u00e8s l&rsquo;application <a title=\"L&#039;application pour apprendre une langue !\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mosalingua.com\/blog\/2021\/09\/13\/sos-vocabulaire-apprendre-la-politesse-et-dire-merci-traduction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">MOSALingua<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <ul>\n<li>Allemand : \u00ab Danke \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Anglais : \u00ab Thank you \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Chinois : \u00ab Xi\u00e8xie ni \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Espagnol : \u00ab Gracias \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Portugais : \u00ab Obrigado (a) \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Italien : \u00ab Grazie \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Japonais : \u00ab Arigat\u00f4 \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>Russe : \u00ab Spacibo \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>\u26a0\ufe0f\u200b Attention aux m\u00e9prises\u202f! Les <strong>remerciements des Occidentaux<\/strong> n\u2019ont pas forc\u00e9ment la m\u00eame signification que ceux des autres pays du globe. Si on ne t\u2019en voudra pas par moments de t\u2019\u00eatre tromp\u00e9, la <strong>confusion pourra<\/strong> en revanche <strong>donner lieu \u00e0 des silences g\u00eanants<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udca1 \u200bLe savais-tu ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>En Chine, on refuse par modestie <strong>les louanges<\/strong> des autres. Il ne faut pas remercier une personne pour sa gentillesse si c&rsquo;est un <strong>membre de sa famille ou l&rsquo;un de ses\u00a0amis<\/strong>. Si on est applaudi dans une allocution, on <strong>applaudit avec le public<\/strong> pour le remercier. 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