{"id":245802,"date":"2022-08-11T16:41:33","date_gmt":"2022-08-11T14:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/?p=245802"},"modified":"2025-05-05T14:19:59","modified_gmt":"2025-05-05T12:19:59","slug":"la-pression-des-parents-pour-les-etudes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/la-pression-des-parents-pour-les-etudes\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9chapper \u00e0 la pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes : comment suivre tes r\u00eaves ? \ud83e\udd14"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>La <strong>pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes<\/strong>, c\u2019est une r\u00e9alit\u00e9 pour beaucoup de jeunes qui se forcent \u00e0 faire des activit\u00e9s, suivre des \u00e9tudes voire carr\u00e9ment <strong>d\u00e9terminer tout leur futur en fonction de ce que leurs parents souhaitent<\/strong>. Si c\u2019est ton cas, on te donne quelques conseils pour \u00e9tablir des compromis et t\u2019affranchir de tout ce stress. \ud83d\udc47<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La &#8220;pression parentale&#8221;, c\u2019est quoi ? \ud83e\uddd0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Commen\u00e7ons par vraiment d\u00e9finir la pression parentale afin de mieux la comprendre : il s\u2019agit de toutes les <strong>exigences et attentes que des parents peuvent placer sur leurs enfants<\/strong> et ce, durant toute leur vie. Eh oui, il n\u2019y a pas vraiment d\u2019\u00e2ge o\u00f9 la pression parentale s\u2019arr\u00eate, bien que celle-ci soit <strong>moins accablante une fois la majorit\u00e9 pass\u00e9e<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/QPQ3xlJhqR1BXl89RG\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Toi qui attend d&#8217;avoir 18 ans&#8230; c&#8217;est long <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udca1 Le savais-tu ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>Selon le <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.fr\/,la-pression-familiale-comment-motiver-sans-stresser,836991.asp\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">magazine Marie-Claire<\/a>, on peut distinguer deux types de pression parentale : celle des parents qui ont une <strong>frustration vis-\u00e0-vis de leur propre parcours scolaire<\/strong> et souhaitent que leurs enfants fassent mieux et celle des parents qui <strong>succombent \u00e0 la pression sociale<\/strong> ou \u00e0 leurs propres exigences et imposent une certaine orientation \u00e0 leurs enfants.<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 G\u00e9n\u00e9ralement, les orientations impos\u00e9es sont <strong>des parcours dits \u201cs\u00fbrs\u201d et bien per\u00e7us <\/strong>par la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 : grandes \u00e9coles, pr\u00e9pa, m\u00e9decine\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prenons <strong>quelques exemples pour mieux illustrer la situation<\/strong>. La pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes \u00e7a peut \u00eatre :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Choisir de prendre <strong>une option facultative<\/strong> par obligation de tes parents (le latin par exemple\u2026 \ud83d\ude2c)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Suivre <strong>une voie toute trac\u00e9e pour tes \u00e9tudes<\/strong>, non pas par choix mais par recommandation de tes parents<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Faire des <strong>efforts dans tes \u00e9tudes pour satisfaire tes parents<\/strong> avant de te satisfaire toi-m\u00eame<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9videmment, la pression parentale peut prendre plein d\u2019autres formes, et celles-ci ne sont <strong>pas forc\u00e9ment li\u00e9es \u00e0 ta scolarit\u00e9 ou \u00e0 ton orientation<\/strong> ! Nous avons simplement choisi de nous centrer sur cette question car l\u2019orientation et les \u00e9tudes peuvent \u00eatre synonymes de conflits dans beaucoup de familles.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udcca Quelques chiffres<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>L\u2019une des causes qui peut expliquer la pression que certains parents mettent sur leurs enfants, c\u2019est <strong>le stress<\/strong>. Selon une <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ipsos.com\/fr-fr\/evolution-de-la-parentalite-vers-une-quete-dideal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">enqu\u00eate IPSOS<\/a>, plus d\u2019<strong>un parent sur deux se consid\u00e8re plus stress\u00e9 que ses propres parents \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque<\/strong> (53%).<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"push \">\n        <div >\n            \n                                                <div class=\"push__container  qcd\" data-target=\"_self\" data-qcd=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9zaGVycGFzLmNvbS9wcm9mZXNzZXVycz9zaWdudXA9dHJ1ZQ==\" data-banner=\"2\" data-name=\"Cours part&amp;#8217; global #2 = CPG2\" style=\"background-color: #F3FBF7\" >\n                                                                        <div class=\"push__teachers\">\n    <div class=\"d-flex justify-content-center d-md-none\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"push__logo\" src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\" 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class=\"push__text\"><p>Nos profs sont l\u00e0 pour t&#8217;aider \u00e0 progresser !<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!-- notionvc: 20490bdd-6579-484b-9d99-0ff0bc1aa8e7 --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                        <div class=\"push__promo-button   \">\n                                                                                                    <div\n                                        class=\"btn btn-primary\"\n                                        style=\"color: ; border-color: ; background-color: \"\n\n                                    >\n                                        JE PRENDS UN COURS GRATUIT !\n                                    <\/div>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00c0 qui la faute ? \ud83e\udd37<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais alors sur qui repose la faute de cette pression constante mise sur les jeunes ? Eh bien techniquement, sur personne puisqu\u2019elle vient en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de<strong> facteurs ind\u00e9pendants de la volont\u00e9 des deux partis<\/strong> dans la plupart des cas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On peut n\u00e9anmoins tenter de comprendre et d\u00e9crypter le ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne en s\u2019int\u00e9ressant \u00e0 diff\u00e9rents aspects qui sont susceptibles de causer la <strong>fracture entre les exigences parentales et ton d\u00e9sir d\u2019\u00e9mancipation<\/strong>. \ud83d\udc47<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u2019inqui\u00e9tude des parents \ud83d\ude25<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Alors oui, on l\u2019a bien vu un peu plus haut, la parentalit\u00e9 d\u2019aujourd\u2019hui a l\u2019air particuli\u00e8rement stressante, en particulier lorsqu\u2019il s\u2019agit de jongler du mieux qu\u2019on peut entre la <strong>vie familiale et la carri\u00e8re professionnelle<\/strong>. D\u2019ailleurs, toujours selon <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ipsos.com\/fr-fr\/evolution-de-la-parentalite-vers-une-quete-dideal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">IPSOS<\/a>, 39% des parents affirment que l\u2019\u00e9quilibre entre ces deux mondes est difficile \u00e0 trouver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce n\u2019est pas anodin car, en tant que parent, on peut facilement <strong>se sentir d\u00e9connect\u00e9 de la vie de son enfant<\/strong> avec qui on passe de moins en moins de temps, en particulier \u00e0 mesure que celui-ci \u00e9volue et grandit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/tM77LKMjQ3MaQAXUA8\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Les discussions peuvent vite devenir \u00e9lectrique <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>L\u2019un des domaines o\u00f9 les parents peuvent exercer leur autorit\u00e9 et pr\u00e9server leur lien avec leur enfant, c\u2019est le <strong>suivi de la scolarit\u00e9<\/strong>. Et c\u2019est \u00e0 partir de l\u00e0 que l\u2019on peut vite se retrouver dans des situations de pression familiale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>On a peur que son enfant ne trouve pas d\u2019emploi, ne s\u2019ins\u00e8re pas dans la soci\u00e9t\u00e9, ne s\u2019\u00e9panouisse pas intellectuellement, ne ressemble pas \u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e que l\u2019on s\u2019\u00e9tait faite de lui : <strong>on lui impose un parcours tout trac\u00e9<\/strong> sans se soucier de ses envies et de ses souhaits.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>On a peur que son enfant connaisse les m\u00eames difficult\u00e9s que l\u2019on a pu rencontrer, on rejette la frustration de son propre \u00e9chec scolaire sur ses performances : <strong>on lui met une pression constante<\/strong> et on instaure une ambiance malsaine dans la relation parent\/enfant.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 M\u00eame si cela part d\u2019une bonne intention, la pression parentale n\u2019est jamais une fa\u00e7on saine d\u2019exprimer son inqui\u00e9tude car elle peut souvent \u00eatre <strong>interpr\u00e9t\u00e9e comme du d\u00e9samour<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u2019\u00e9cart entre les g\u00e9n\u00e9rations \ud83d\udc6a<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>On peut aussi remettre la faute de la pression familiale sur <strong>l\u2019\u00e9cart entre les g\u00e9n\u00e9rations<\/strong>. Car oui, entre la naissance des parents et celle de leurs enfants, plusieurs ann\u00e9es se sont \u00e9coul\u00e9es, les m\u0153urs ont un peu chang\u00e9 et la jeunesse n\u2019est plus la m\u00eame que celle qu\u2019ils ont pu conna\u00eetre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alors forc\u00e9ment, si tu dis \u00e0 tes parents que tu veux <strong>tout plaquer dans tes \u00e9tudes et te consacrer \u00e0 100% \u00e0 ta cha\u00eene YouTube<\/strong> beaut\u00e9 ou \u00e0 tes streams de jeux vid\u00e9o sur Twitch\u2026 Ils risquent de devoir s\u2019asseoir un instant pour encaisser la nouvelle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u2019autant plus que <strong>la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 a grandement \u00e9volu\u00e9<\/strong>, l\u2019acc\u00e8s au travail n\u2019est plus le m\u00eame qu\u2019il y a vingt ans et le monde professionnel que tu vas c\u00f4toyer n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre pas le m\u00eame que celui qu\u2019ils ont connu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/ANLHL4HzdznoOCXS7Q\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Pa besoin d&#8217;un costume Papa ! <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Il peut donc arriver que l\u2019on te mette la pression, <strong>par peur de l\u2019inconnu et par m\u00e9connaissance de ce dans quoi tu as l\u2019intention de te lancer<\/strong>. \u00c7a peut \u00eatre aussi bien justifi\u00e9 que totalement d\u00e9mesur\u00e9 et la seule solution pour mettre les choses au clair, c\u2019est de communiquer !&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pourquoi t\u2019\u00e9manciper ? \ud83d\udcaa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Voyons rapidement les raisons qui peuvent<strong> te pousser \u00e0 vouloir t\u2019\u00e9manciper des sch\u00e9mas de la pression parentale<\/strong> mais aussi les limites que tu dois te fixer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 La pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes est nocive, oui mais elle est parfois issue d\u2019<strong>inqui\u00e9tudes concr\u00e8tes<\/strong> et dont il faut tenir compte !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Suivre tes r\u00eaves\u2026<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Bon d\u2019accord, c\u2019est un peu simplet mais le fameux \u201c<em>Beli\u00e8ve, croire en nos r\u00eaves<\/em>\u201d c\u2019est <strong>le mantra de toute une vie<\/strong> ! \ud83d\udc47<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/shmsbrw\/status\/1380838610249920523\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>En clair, il faut que tu te dises que <strong>tu n\u2019as qu\u2019une vie<\/strong> et qu\u2019il vaut mieux vivre celle que tu as choisie et dans laquelle tu peux t\u2019\u00e9panouir plut\u00f4t qu\u2019une voie toute trac\u00e9e que quelqu\u2019un d\u2019autre a d\u00e9cid\u00e9e \u00e0 ta place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Succomber \u00e0 la pression et te forcer \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser les souhaits de tes parents, \u00e7a peut tr\u00e8s souvent <strong>\u00eatre contre-productif<\/strong>\u2026 Si quelque chose ne t\u2019int\u00e9resse pas, il y a peu de chances que cela fonctionne, <strong>d\u2019autant plus si c\u2019est fait par obligation et donc avec frustration<\/strong> ! \ud83d\ude2c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u2026sans pour autant les id\u00e9aliser<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Eh oui, <strong>les r\u00eaves c\u2019est bien beau, mais il faut aussi remettre les pieds sur Terre<\/strong> le temps d\u2019un instant. Si tu subis de la pression de la part de tes parents, c\u2019est peut-\u00eatre parce que le parcours dans lequel tu souhaites t\u2019embarquer est incertain et source d\u2019inqui\u00e9tudes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alors avant de te lancer t\u00eate baiss\u00e9e, il faut <strong>te sortir de la dimension idyllique<\/strong> de tes r\u00eaves et te renseigner sur la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 du domaine qui t\u2019int\u00e9resse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Ce sera non seulement l\u2019occasion pour toi de prendre du recul, mais aussi de <strong>faire m\u00fbrir ta d\u00e9cision<\/strong> de sorte \u00e0 \u00eatre plus cr\u00e9dible face \u00e0 tes parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et si tu n\u2019as aucune id\u00e9e de <strong>la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 (pas toujours rose) de certains \u201cm\u00e9tiers de r\u00eave\u201d<\/strong>, on a pr\u00e9par\u00e9 une petite liste des avantages et des inconv\u00e9nients que tu pourrais retrouver en fin d\u2019article. \ud83d\udc47<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"push \">\n        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url(https:\/\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Noemie2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">No\u00e9mie<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">M2 en droit \u00e0 Assas<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    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src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\"\n                                        alt=\"Logo Sherpas\">\n                                <\/div>\n                                                                                        <div class=\"push__title\"><p>Ton premier cours particulier est offert ! <span role=\"img\" aria-label=\"\ud83c\udf81\">\ud83c\udf81<\/span><!-- notionvc: 91b6b7d7-50f2-46f4-ae1f-ecbabe834aad --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                                                        <div class=\"push__text\"><p>Nos profs sont pass\u00e9s par les meilleures \u00e9coles et universit\u00e9s.<!-- notionvc: 21bb66b6-b36d-4ce8-8950-173722d75a1e --><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                        <div class=\"push__promo-button   \">\n                                                                                                    <div\n                                        class=\"btn btn-primary\"\n                                        style=\"color: #ffffff; border-color: ; background-color: \"\n\n                                    >\n                                        J&#8217;EN PROFITE MAINTENANT !\n                                    <\/div>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Comment te d\u00e9tacher de la pression des parents<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Si tu es sujet \u00e0 de la pression venant de ta famille, il va donc falloir te questionner sur les origines de la situation et faire en sorte de te d\u00e9barrasser efficacement de cette \u00e9nergie n\u00e9gative <strong>sans pour autant aggraver le probl\u00e8me<\/strong>. On te donne les cl\u00e9s pour r\u00e9ussir cela avec brio ! \ud83d\udd11<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Concr\u00e9tiser ton projet<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Il faut commencer par convaincre tes parents que la voie que tu souhaites suivre <strong>n\u2019est pas une lubie<\/strong> et leur prouver ton s\u00e9rieux. Rien de plus simple si le domaine te passionne vraiment, tu n\u2019as qu\u2019\u00e0 prouver <strong>ton int\u00e9r\u00eat constant, ton s\u00e9rieux et ta rigueur<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si cela est possible, tu peux aussi commencer par faire du m\u00e9tier ou de la formation de tes r\u00eaves un passe-temps. C\u2019est g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement faisable pour tout ce qui touche au domaine artistique (illustrateur, vid\u00e9aste, auteur, etc.) o\u00f9 tu peux facilement <strong>t\u2019entra\u00eener seul et d\u00e9montrer la sinc\u00e9rit\u00e9 de ta d\u00e9marche<\/strong> !&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On parle de <strong>concr\u00e9tisation<\/strong> alors autant te donner directement des exemples concrets :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Si tu veux \u00eatre vid\u00e9aste, commence \u00e0 <strong>publier ton travail sur la plateforme de ton choix<\/strong> (YouTube, TikTok, Instagram\u2026)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Si c\u2019est l\u2019illustration qui t\u2019inspire, essaie de <strong>gagner en notori\u00e9t\u00e9<\/strong> sur des sites d\u00e9di\u00e9s (Tumblr, Pinterest, Instagram\u2026)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Si tu pr\u00e9f\u00e8res l\u2019\u00e9criture, <strong>partage tes talents avec le monde<\/strong> gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Internet : Wattpad est la plateforme la plus connue mais tu peux trouver d\u2019autres moyens de publier comme Twitter ou Instagram, par exemple ! Il suffit d\u2019un peu d\u2019imagination\u2026&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>De grandes <em>success stories<\/em> ont commenc\u00e9 ainsi, alors <strong>pourquoi ne pas tenter ta chance<\/strong> ? Cela te permettra d\u2019ailleurs de te rendre compte du succ\u00e8s que tu peux rencontrer et <strong>rendre ton projet plus cr\u00e9dible<\/strong> aux yeux de tes parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Faire des compromis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Les discussions familiales, c\u2019est aussi <strong>beaucoup de compromis<\/strong> et ce cas de figure n\u2019\u00e9chappe pas \u00e0 la r\u00e8gle ! \ud83d\ude15<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quand il s\u2019agit de parler de l\u2019avenir avec tes parents, il faut parfois mettre de l\u2019eau dans son vin et faire <strong>quelques efforts pour obtenir ce que l\u2019on souhaite<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Par exemple, si tu souhaites te lancer dans une carri\u00e8re de youtubeur, il vaut mieux <strong>suivre une formation en parall\u00e8le<\/strong> plut\u00f4t que d\u2019abandonner totalement tes \u00e9tudes. M\u00eame si celle-ci t\u2019int\u00e9resse moins, elle te permettra tout de m\u00eame de te valoriser sur le march\u00e9 de l\u2019emploi <strong>si les&nbsp; choses ne fonctionnent pas comme tu l\u2019esp\u00e9rais<\/strong>\u2026 \u00c7a peut arriver ! \ud83d\ude05<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><p>\ud83d\udca1 Le savais-tu ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p>Selon <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vie-publique.fr\/en-bref\/285177-insertion-professionnelle-des-jeunes-le-diplome-determinant\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">une enqu\u00eate<\/a>, seuls 12% des personnes qui n\u2019ont pas de dipl\u00f4me acc\u00e8dent \u00e0 un emploi stable. Mieux vaut avoir une base pour commencer dans la vie, comme le bac ou un premier dipl\u00f4me de l\u2019enseignement sup\u00e9rieur. Tu pourras retomber sur tes pattes en cas d\u2019\u00e9chec et rassurer tes parents qui s\u2019inqui\u00e8tent !<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"read-also\">\n    <p class=\"read-also__title\">\u00c0 lire aussi<\/p>\n            <div class=\"read-also__list\">\n            <p>\u2b50\ufe0f D\u00e9couvre <a href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/roger-federer\/\">le portrait de Roger Federer<\/a>\u00a0!<\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 En mati\u00e8re d\u2019orientation, <strong>la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 prime <\/strong>! M\u00eame si tu as la sensation de pouvoir te passer des \u00e9tudes, il est toujours plus s\u00e9rieux de terminer son parcours que d\u2019abandonner en plein milieu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Rassurer tes parents<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>On te l\u2019a d\u00e9j\u00e0 dit cent fois dans cet article, la pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes vient en grande partie de l\u2019inqui\u00e9tude des parents. Alors ta mission est simple : <strong>identifie la source de cette inqui\u00e9tude et rassure-les<\/strong> !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7a peut demander de la p\u00e9dagogie et <strong>beaucoup de patience<\/strong>, mais \u00e7a peut aussi encore une fois prouver ton s\u00e9rieux et ta d\u00e9termination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pour construire ton argumentaire, renseigne-toi bien sur le domaine qui t\u2019int\u00e9resse et <strong>reste ouvert \u00e0 leurs questions<\/strong>, \u00e0 leurs doutes et aux compromis qu\u2019ils peuvent proposer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 On le r\u00e9p\u00e8te encore une fois, la communication, c\u2019est le secret !&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/czsyg3h7B3MMWiX7qW\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bonus : Avantages et inconv\u00e9nients des \u201cnouveaux m\u00e9tiers\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Par \u201cnouveaux m\u00e9tiers\u201d, on entend <strong>tout ce qui peut te sembler tr\u00e8s attirant<\/strong> : influenceur, youtubeur, tiktoker, entrepreneur\u2026 Tu vois le genre, quoi ! \ud83d\ude05<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Avantages<strong> \u2795<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2795 <strong>Vivre de sa passion<\/strong> (techniquement\u2026)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2795 <strong>Pas de routine <\/strong>et plein de t\u00e2ches diff\u00e9rentes (on cumule les casquettes ! \ud83e\udde2)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2795 Une <strong>r\u00e9mun\u00e9ration plut\u00f4t avantageuse<\/strong>, mais tout d\u00e9pend du succ\u00e8s rencontr\u00e9<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2795 Se construire<strong> une petite r\u00e9putation<\/strong>, voire la vraie <em>fame<\/em> (et tous les cadeaux qui vont avec)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Inconv\u00e9nients \u2796<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2796 Un <strong>succ\u00e8s qui peut s\u2019essouffler<\/strong> du jour au lendemain<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2796 <strong>Pas de revenu fixe<\/strong>, tout d\u00e9pend du travail effectu\u00e9 sur la p\u00e9riode<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2796 Des m\u00e9tiers tr\u00e8s fatigants o\u00f9 il faut <strong>\u00eatre super entreprenant<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2796<strong> La pression du succ\u00e8s<\/strong> et de la c\u00e9l\u00e9brit\u00e9 si on en arrive jusque l\u00e0\u2026!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"kk-star-ratings kksr-auto kksr-align-center kksr-valign-bottom\"\n    data-payload='{&quot;align&quot;:&quot;center&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:&quot;245802&quot;,&quot;slug&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;valign&quot;:&quot;bottom&quot;,&quot;ignore&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;reference&quot;:&quot;auto&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;count&quot;:&quot;11&quot;,&quot;legendonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;readonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;score&quot;:&quot;4.3&quot;,&quot;starsonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;best&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;gap&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;greet&quot;:&quot;Tu as aim\u00e9 cet article ?&quot;,&quot;legend&quot;:&quot;4.3\\\/5 - (11 votes)&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;24&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;\u00c9chapper \u00e0 la pression des parents pour les \u00e9tudes : comment suivre tes r\u00eaves ? 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