{"id":222687,"date":"2022-04-25T11:03:24","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T09:03:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/?p=222687"},"modified":"2025-01-14T17:13:39","modified_gmt":"2025-01-14T16:13:39","slug":"avoir-un-bon-relationnel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/avoir-un-bon-relationnel\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment avoir un bon relationnel : atteindre tes objectifs \ud83d\udcaa"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dans la vie,<strong> on ne r\u00e9ussit pas tout du premier coup, et en r\u00e9alit\u00e9, c\u2019est pas si grave<\/strong>. Eh oui,<strong> apr\u00e8s l\u2019\u00e9chec vient la remise en question<\/strong>. C\u2019est exactement ce qui s\u2019est pass\u00e9 pour Etienne qui, apr\u00e8s avoir perdu les \u00e9lections de d\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9s, s\u2019est rendu compte qu\u2019il n&#8217;\u00e9tait pas toujours intuitif d&#8217;<strong>avoir un bon relationnel&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c0 travers son exp\u00e9rience, on te donne des conseils pour avoir un<strong> bon relationnel, nouer des relations constructives avec les autres et r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 atteindre tes objectifs\u2026 <\/strong>\u00e7a te chauffe ? \ud83d\udd25<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"relance\">\n        <div >\n                            <a  href=\"https:\/\/sherpas.com\/blog\/guide-confiance-en-soi\/\">\n                    <div class=\"relance__container\"\n                        >\n                        \n                                                        <picture>\n                            <source srcset=\"https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confiance-en-toi-e1554474447917.png\" media=\"(min-width: 999px)\">\n                            <source srcset=\"https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confiance-en-toi-e1554474447917.png\" media=\"(max-width: 999px)\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\"\n                                    src=\"https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Confiance-en-toi-e1554474447917.png\"\n                                    alt=\"Personne heureuse\"\n                                >\n                            <\/picture>\n                                                <div class=\"relance__content\">\n                            \n                                <div class=\"relance__title\"> <p>D\u00e9couvre comment prendre confiance en toi avec notre guide ! \u2600\ufe0f<\/p>\n<\/div>\n                                                        <button type=\"button\"\n                                    class=\"relance__button btn btn-white\">\n                                T\u00c9L\u00c9CHARGE NOTRE GUIDE\n                            <\/button>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n    \n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00c9coute (vraiment) les autres \ud83d\udc42<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/VNbPZPwervXzy\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Une pizza triple pepperoni double salto arri\u00e8re svp<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><strong>Avoir un bon sens du relationnel passe forc\u00e9ment par le fait d\u2019\u00e9couter les autres<\/strong>. Tu peux parfois avoir l\u2019impression que c\u2019est le cas, mais, trop emball\u00e9 par tes propres convictions, tu prends le dessus et la conversation se recentre sur toi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u00c9coute vraiment, <strong>sans jugement et sans faire la fl\u00fbte dans ta t\u00eate<\/strong> (oui, oui, on te voit)<\/li><li>\u00c9coute<strong> en \u00e9tant ouvert d\u2019esprit<\/strong>. Tu ne d\u00e9tiens probablement pas la v\u00e9rit\u00e9, et c\u2019est normal, car <strong>il n\u2019y a pas une seule et unique v\u00e9rit\u00e9.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li><li>\u00c9coute en<strong> te nourrissant des autres<\/strong>. De fait, \u00e0 partir du moment o\u00f9 tu t\u2019aper\u00e7ois que tu <strong>n\u2019es pas le seul \u00e0 poss\u00e9der une opinion<\/strong>, le monde apparait d\u2019un coup plus complexe, mais aussi plus fascinant, tu ne crois pas ?&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Ne pas \u00eatre<strong> auto-centr\u00e9&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Comprendre le point de vue de l\u2019autre c\u2019est aussi <strong>se confronter \u00e0 sa r\u00e9alit\u00e9<\/strong> et ce qui se cache derrri\u00e8re : envies, motivations, peur, doutes, aspirations\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prends en compte les diff\u00e9rents points de vue \ud83d\udc40<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Maintenant que tu sais \u00e9couter quelqu\u2019un, c\u2019est important de <strong>prendre en compte son avis, m\u00eame s\u2019il est diff\u00e9rent du tien.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Faire preuve de <strong>tol\u00e9rance, de bienveillance<\/strong> et essaye de comprendre&nbsp;ce que les autres pensent ou ressentent. <\/li><li>En consid\u00e9rant<strong> la complexit\u00e9 d\u2019un probl\u00e8me et les diff\u00e9rents points de vue<\/strong>, tu trouves plus rapidement une solution.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Si par exemple tu te pr\u00e9sentes aux \u00e9lections des d\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9s, il est important de prendre en compte l\u2019avis des autres et <strong>de les associer au processus de d\u00e9cision.&nbsp;<\/strong>Ils votent pour toi, parce que tu peux leur apporter quelque chose. Et non pas car tu es un leader charismatique \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si tu veux que l\u2019on te fasse confiance ET avoir un bon relationnel, tu dois imp\u00e9rativement <strong>montrer aux autres qu\u2019ils <em>peuvent<\/em> te faire confiance<\/strong>, que tu sais les \u00e9couter et prendre en compte leurs opinions et probl\u00e9matiques.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 En r\u00e9alit\u00e9, \u00e7a vaut pour<strong> toutes les situations o\u00f9 il y a du relationnel<\/strong> : avec tes amis, ta famille, ton partenaire\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"push \">\n        <div >\n            \n                                                <div class=\"push__container  qcd\" data-target=\"_self\" data-qcd=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9zaGVycGFzLmNvbS9wcm9mZXNzZXVycz9zaWdudXA9dHJ1ZQ==\" data-banner=\"2\" data-name=\"Cours part&amp;#8217; global #1 = CPG1\" style=\"background-color: #F3FBF7\" >\n                                                                        <div class=\"push__teachers\">\n    <div class=\"d-flex justify-content-center d-md-none\">\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"push__logo\" src=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/logo.svg\" alt=\"Logo Sherpas\">\n    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"swiper\">\n        <div class=\"swiper-wrapper\">\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Noemie2x.jpg);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">No\u00e9mie<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">M2 en droit \u00e0 Assas<\/p>                                                     <div 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 <div\n                            class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Antoine2x.png);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Antoine<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">Sciences Po Paris<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            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      class=\"push__teachers-profil\"\n                            \n                            style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/adymrxvmro.cloudimg.io\/v7\/sherpas.com\/content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Thibault2x.png);\"\n                        >\n                    <\/div>\n                         <p class=\"push__teachers-name\">Thibault<\/p>                          <p class=\"push__teachers-school\">ENS Paris Ulm<\/p>                                                     <div class=\"push__teachers-note\">\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                           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                                             <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                            <\/div>\n                                                 <p class=\"push__teachers-price\">15\u20ac\/h<\/p>                     <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                                            <div class=\"swiper-slide\">\n                    <div class=\"push__teachers-card\">\n                        <div\n                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          xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            xlink:href=\"\/content\/themes\/sherpas-theme\/dist\/images\/sprite.svg#star\"\/>\n                                    <\/svg>\n                                                                    <svg  class=\"active\" >\n                                        <use\n                                            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  <\/div>\n                                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sois humain et partage des moments authentiques \ud83d\udc96<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/Zds7ggWpSfe675qU1A\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Autre <strong>condition <em>sine qua non<\/em><\/strong> : \u00eatre humain. Tu pourras \u00e9couter et impliquer seulement si tu fais preuve <strong>d\u2019humanit\u00e9<\/strong>. Et \u00eatre humain, c\u2019est notamment <strong>faire preuve d\u2019empathie<\/strong> et se soucier des autres.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Les choses \u00e0 ne pas faire \u274c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Paraitre<strong> inaccessible et froid <\/strong>: cela donne l\u2019impression que tu n\u2019en as rien \u00e0 faire des autres ! <\/li><li>\u00catre<strong> transparent et tr\u00e8s discret <\/strong>pour ne pas faire de vagues<\/li><li>En faire<strong> des caisses <\/strong>et essayer d\u2019\u00eatre ami avec tout le monde&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49Autant te le dire,<strong> ces trois techniques ne fonctionnent absolument pas<\/strong>. C\u2019est souvent d\u2019ailleurs parce que tu joues fondamentalement<strong> un r\u00f4le<\/strong>&#8230; Du coup, avoir un bon relationnel ne peut passer par ces trois comportements.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le meilleur conseil que l\u2019on puisse te donner :<strong> sois authentique, sois toi-m\u00eame !<\/strong> C\u2019est le pari gagnant. Les gens que tu rencontreras t\u2019appr\u00e9cieront<strong> pour de bonnes raisons avec tes qualit\u00e9s et tes d\u00e9fauts.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pars \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte de toi-m\u00eame \ud83d\udd0d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s, on te dit \u201csois-toi m\u00eame\u201d, c\u2019est pas si \u00e9vident\u2026 surtout si toi-m\u00eame, tu ne sais pas qui tu es. D\u00e9j\u00e0, pas de panique,<strong> c\u2019est normal et sain de s\u2019interroger sur son identit\u00e9, ses aspirations, ses envies<\/strong>. La remise en question est n\u00e9cessaire pour se trouver !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bon, mais, plus concr\u00e8tement<strong> comment on sait qui on est ?<\/strong> Et comment on le d\u00e9couvre ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Pose-toi des questions<\/strong> : ce qui te plait, t\u2019anime, t\u2019\u00e9nerve, t\u2019angoisse, te fait peur, te donne envie. Sur le futur, le pass\u00e9, les \u00e9checs, les erreurs ?&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Observe-toi<\/strong> : tes comportements, tes r\u00e9actions (bonnes ou mauvaises)<\/li><li><strong>Demande-toi ce qui t\u2019anime profond\u00e9ment et au contraire ce qui te freine.<\/strong> C\u2019est vraiment la cl\u00e9 pour avancer.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Tout ce travail n\u2019est pas facile, mais il est n\u00e9cessaire pour te permettre d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 te connaitre et donc<strong> d&#8217;avoir un bon relationnel.<\/strong> Dis-toi qu\u2019<strong>\u00e0 partir du moment o\u00f9 tu seras bien avec toi-m\u00eame, tu seras bien avec les autres<\/strong> (vraiment). \ud83d\udcaa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Attention<\/strong> \ud83d\udc40, se trouver soi-m\u00eame <strong>n\u2019est pas une excuse pour mal se comporter<\/strong> avec les autres sous pr\u00e9texte que \u201cje suis comme \u00e7a\u201d. Sinon, retour \u00e0 la case d\u00e9part ! \u261d\ufe0f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tu ne peux pas plaire \u00e0 tout le monde \u274c<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/ftqLysT45BJMagKFuk\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>\u00catre authentique et apprendre \u00e0 te connaitre ne veut pas forc\u00e9ment dire que tu vas plaire \u00e0 tout le monde. C\u2019est m\u00eame plut\u00f4t sain !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00eame si <strong>tu passais ta vie enti\u00e8re \u00e0 aider les autres<\/strong>, il y a aurait toujours des gens pour avoir des choses \u00e0 redire sur ce que tu fais.<strong> Il faut admettre que chacun \u00e0 ses opinions, ses sensibilit\u00e9s et que par cons\u00e9quent il n\u2019y a pas de go\u00fbt universel.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bien s\u00fbr, devenir <strong>la meilleure version de soi-m\u00eame <\/strong>pour soi et pour les autres, c\u2019est une belle motivation. Mais si tu cherches \u00e0 plaire \u00e0 tous le monde, tu seras tr\u00e8s vite malheureux, car <strong>cette qu\u00eate est tout bonnement impossible.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49<strong>Apprends \u00e0 garder la bonne distance avec le regard des autres<\/strong>. D\u2019un c\u00f4t\u00e9, il est important pour se remettre en question et \u00e9voluer, de l\u2019autre il ne te d\u00e9termine pas !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le plus important<strong>, c\u2019est de trouver une \u00e9quilibre.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Agis pour les bonnes raisons \u2705<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ah, vaste sujet&#8230;<strong> <\/strong>Pourquoi vouloir acqu\u00e9rir des<strong> responsabilit\u00e9s, du <a href=\"https:\/\/fr.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Leadership\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">leadership<\/a> <\/strong>et du <strong>pouvoir ?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Les mauvaises motivations \u274c<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Pour gonfler <strong>ton \u00e9go<\/strong><\/li><li>Pour acqu\u00e9rir de la <strong>popularit\u00e9<\/strong><\/li><li>Pour \u00eatre <strong>bien vu&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Les bonnes motivations \u2705<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Faire<strong> avancer les choses&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li><li>\u00c7a te pla\u00eet de d\u00e9velopper des nouvelles comp\u00e9tences <\/li><li>Parce que tu sens que tu es la bonne personne pour r\u00e9soudre un probl\u00e8me donn\u00e9 <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Les raisons pour lesquelles tu souhaites d\u00e9velopper ton leadership agissent \u00e9norm\u00e9ment sur ton relationnel. Il ne faut \u00eatre na\u00eff pour autant,<strong> tout le monde trouve un int\u00e9r\u00eat particulier quand il fait quelque chose.<\/strong> Mais si tu fais les choses pour une bonne raison, ce sera plus facile.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Adopte le gagnant-gagnant \ud83d\udcaa<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/jZAOQbch4ibfQ97VBS\/giphy.gif\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Enfin, lorsqu&#8217;on parle d&#8217;avoir un bon relationnel, tes m\u00e9thodes pour n\u00e9gocier et de trouver une solution \u00e0 un probl\u00e8me sont pr\u00e9pond\u00e9rantes. De fait, on te conseille <strong>d\u2019adopter le gagnant-gagnant.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"you-know\">\n                <div class=\"you-know__title\"><\/div>\n                        <div class=\"you-know__text\">\n            <p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>En r\u00e9alit\u00e9, il existe <strong>deux mani\u00e8res de n\u00e9gocier :\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --> <!-- wp:list --><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Non-coop\u00e9rative<\/strong> : \u00e0 la mani\u00e8re de Donald Trump qui impose et dirige selon son mode de fonctionnement.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Coop\u00e9rative<\/strong> : qui prend en compte la position de l\u2019autre, ce qui est important pour cette personne.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><!-- \/wp:list --><\/p>\n\n        <\/div>\n              <\/section>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu l\u2019auras compris, on te conseille la deuxi\u00e8me m\u00e9thode de n\u00e9gociation. Le but \u00e9tant<strong> de trouver un compris et donc, de discuter pour satisfaire les objectifs des deux personnes<\/strong>. En somme, que les deux individus soient gagnants !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Pour autant, si tu te retrouves \u00e0 n\u00e9gocier avec une personne qui est non-coop\u00e9rative, tu auras des difficult\u00e9s \u00e0 l\u2019\u00eatre.<strong> Ne te laisse pas marcher sur les pieds,<\/strong> mais t\u00e2che de <strong>garder ta ligne directrice pour conserver de bonnes relations <\/strong>avec les personnes qui t\u2019entourent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Avoir un bon relationnel, easy peasy \ud83e\udd1d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu as d\u00e9sormais en ta possession les conseils pour avoir un bon relationnel dans ta vie professionnelle mais aussi personnelle. 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